THOUGHTFUL WAYS TO HONOR YOUR MOTHER ON YOUR WEDDING DAY

Weddings hold a special significance for parents, not just the couples involved (cue African mothers). From the early planning stages to the eagerly awaited D-day, mothers revel in their involvement in every aspect of their child's big day. They've dreamt of this moment since the day their precious bundle of joy came into their lives. Even if you have wedding planners and vendors, rest assured, Mom will be there, ready to take charge and save the day if needed, like a superhero in flamboyant asoebi attire. Here are some delightful ways to honor your mom and make her feel truly special on your wedding day.

Adorn an item from your mother

Remember the age-old tradition of "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue"? Well, the "something borrowed" can be a heartfelt tribute to your mom. Wear an item that holds sentimental value for her—a family heirloom like a necklace, bracelet, or earrings, or even her own wedding dress or veil. By doing so, you carry a piece of her with you as you step into married life.

Have a mother-daughter/son dance

We've all seen the popular father-daughter dances, but why not embrace the trend of mother-daughter or mother-son dances? Choose a special song that holds meaning for you and your mom, and let the music sweep you both onto the dance floor. Whether it's a choreographed routine or a slow dance, this moment will make your mom feel extra special and cherished.

Make her get ready with you

Mothers are the ultimate wedding multitaskers. They act as wedding planners, decorators, vendors, and even chauffeurs. So, on your big day, it's only fair that she gets to enjoy the process of getting ready with you. Amidst the excitement and laughter of your bridesmaids and groomsmen, having your mom by your side as you get your hair and makeup done will create a cherished memory for both of you. Consider matching bathrobes or coordinating makeup to make the moment even more meaningful.

Dedicate a heartfelt speech to her

Mothers, especially African mothers, are known for their wise words and heartfelt advice. Now is the perfect time to turn the tables and share a genuine, heartfelt speech with your mom. Express your gratitude for all her efforts and the love she has shown you throughout your life. Take your time to craft a heartwarming speech that honors the special bond between a mother and child. Your wedding day is overwhelming for you, but it is also an emotional journey for your mom as she witnesses her child getting married.

Include her favorite meal on the menu

One thing all moms love is feeding their family. No matter the circumstances, a mother's first duty is to ensure her loved ones are well-fed. Show your appreciation by incorporating your mom's favorite meal into the wedding menu. It could be a cherished family recipe, a traditional dish, or simply something she loves to cook. By including this special meal, you honor your mom's tireless efforts in providing for you and your family.

Remember a deceased mom

While we all wish for our moms to be present on our wedding day, some are no longer with us. In their memory, you can create a poignant tribute. Reserve an empty seat in their honor or incorporate elements they loved, such as their favorite color, flower, or song. Placing their photograph on the empty seat or wearing their wedding dress keeps their memory alive and ensures they are there with you in spirit.

Present her with a bouquet

Mothers deserve to feel cherished and stand out on your special day. Surprise your mom with a beautiful bouquet of her favorite flowers. It's a meaningful gesture that celebrates the unique mother-daughter bond you share. You can even consider presenting a second bouquet to your mother-in-law, symbolizing the joining of two families and expressing gratitude to both mothers.

Embrace different cultures

In a diverse country with over 300 tribes, inter-tribal marriages are common. Embrace your mom's culture by incorporating elements from her tribe into your traditional wedding. It doesn't have to be a grand affair—just a touch of her culture will make her feel appreciated and important on your special day. Find ways to blend customs, whether it's through music, attire, or ceremonial practices, and create a beautiful fusion that celebrates your mom's heritage.

Mothers are the backbone of our society, yet they often go unnoticed and underappreciated. On your wedding day, take the opportunity to honor and make them feel loved. Whether it's through sentimental gestures, heartfelt words, or embracing their cultural heritage, putting a smile on your mom's face is the greatest gift you can give. After all, she's been there for you every step of the way, and this is a moment to celebrate her unending love and support.